By Reniya S. Dinkins:
For most of my life, my parents tried to hide the people who I knew who were locked up. A few years ago, one of my favorite uncles was put in prison. He used to call once a week from the jail, but my father told me to never pick up the phone. I was upset because I couldn't talk to him. After a while, I forgot about it completely. Recently, he sent me a letter for my birthday. I haven't seen or talked to him for years, and that letter made me remember how much I miss him. At the same time, I was upset with him because the mistake he made not only affected him, but it also affected me. I stayed away from my father's brothers and sisters for a while because they reminded me of him.It was never a problem for me to stay out of trouble, even as a kid. I grew up in a Christian school where it was terrible to break even the simplest rules. My conscience made all of my decisions, and every time I made I mistake, I had such a bad feeling in the pit of my stomach that I never wanted to do the wrong thing. Breaking the law was out of the question for me. It wasn't even an option. Seeing my uncle locked up and the results that it brought only confirmed my choice to obey authority.
I believe that teens breaking the law is a result of immaturity and a lack of good influences. Bad influences amongst teens is like a contagious virus. It spreads and spreads until there is hardly any good influences left. Once put under the wrong influence, it is hard to think correctly again. The common term used for this process is peer pressure.
In high school, it is pretty hard to take a stand alone. Because the social life of most teens is their priority in high school, it seems as if there is nothing more to live for. This can make consequences easily forgettable and making mistakes the right thing to do.
I learned a long time ago to always give up short term pleasures for long term gain. That means giving up chilling with friends after school for studying every once in a while or saving money for something I really want. For teens who consider breaking the law, that means not stealing money now, but working in school so they can get a job in the future and earn more money than they can ever steal. That means not drinking underage or using drugs that can start easy addictions, but waiting until the responsible age and making the best decisions about drugs. It also means not being ashamed of doing the right thing now. If a person can be so bold about doing the wrong thing, he or she can be just as bold about doing the right thing.


